in relationships, the same can be said. many times we fail to see the goodness the other person is bring to you and you tend to blame him for things that you are not getting. But have you ever wondered what is going on with him? sometimes, there are more than that and you really have to cut him some slack and just go easy with some stuff.

at work, the pay may not be good, but where else can u find bosses and managers like a friend and allow u to make really stupid mistakes? where else do u find the manager washing the dishes for you, or sweeping and mopping instead of asking you? where can u find a cafe that allows you to sit down and chat on shift, or to play board games on shift?

As the chinese saying goes, you get some you lose some. sometimes, look at things from a different angle and you will see things you previously can't see. Let it go.

it was nice talking to v. i learnt alot about the staff and wad they are thinking. i heard wad she think about our current stand and status and some ideas to improve it. Another person that i spoke with lately was SPL's eric. he is really insightful also and knows alot too. I've learnt alot from the short 1 hour talk with him. i'm slowly losing track of time being half a century old and stuff. my hearing also got prob and i'm getting back aches and bad sleep. i feel that i'm falling apart and i'm only 25.... omg~