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well... since dar gave his views about love... so will i... ain't fighting or anything... so dun worry... first the agreement... love to me is beyond a feeling but a commitment to each other... to be there for each other no matter wad happens... i guess my fav example is a mother and a baby... when a baby wakes up in the middle of the night crying and the couple tries to convince the other to go tend to the baby the mother will not feel like loving the child but rather sleep... does tt mean tt the mum dun love the child? no... the mum still wakes up and tend to the child... it is a commitment beyond a feeling... when the child throws tamtrum and argues with the mum and the mum dun feel love but anger... does tt mean tt the mum dun love the child? no... the mum still prepares food and wash his clothes and stuff... it is a commitment beyond a feeling... and to me... tt is love... beyond just a mere feeling of affection... but to commit to it and despite it all be by his side... and to be by his side is to allow him to know tt even if u dun meet up... u r always there for him... just like a child knows his family is always there for him (maybe except my family but i digress) the feeling of having him there... the sense of company and presence... now the disagreement... true enough... sometimes in the relationship... talking is optional... just being there for each other is better than talking... but when something happens if u really care for the person... you would wanna share his burden... and i always believe shared burden is half burden... and sometimes... i wun wanna just sit beside you to 'share' ur burden... but to hear u tell me wad is bugging u... even if i can't solve it for u... at least i can go thru the agony with you... you know... sometimes when i just sit down there... i feel so worthless... coz i can't do anything to help u except sitting down there... to u it is enough but to me... no... and the celebration? well it is just to create more memories and remember and to have more reasons to spend time wif the other party... coz at the end of the day... it would be memories we would be looking back to and not sitting by each other times... s.h.e - tian hui In Solitude at 4:43 pm 0 shared in solitude | ||||||||||||