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could not sleep so was surfing fridae and blogs and came across this story: ~*-*~ A girl in love asked her boyfriend... Girl: Tell me, who do you love most in this world? Boy: You, of course! Girl: In your heart, what am I to you? The boy thought 4 a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said," You are my rib.." In the Bible, it was said that God saw that Adam was lonely. During his sleep; God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life;you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart. After their wedding,the couple had a sweet and happy life for long while. However, the youthful couple, due to busy schedule of modern life, the never ending worries of daily problems, began to drift apart and their life became mundane. All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated. One day, after a quarrel, the girl ran out of the house. At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, 'You don't love me!' The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse,retorted, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!" Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while. He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.Before she left the house, she turned over & looked at him. The hurt in her eyes was so intense."If I'm really not your missing rib,please let me go."she continued,"It is less painful this way. Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners." Five years have since gone by. He had never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and back. She had remarried a foreigner and divorced. He felt anguished that she never waited for him. In one dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.One day, they finally met at the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good-byes. He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently. Boy: How are you? Girl: I'm fine. How about you? Have you found your missing rib? Boy: No Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight. Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back.You know my number. Nothing has changed. With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye. Good-bye... is it forever... not meeting each other again? One week later, he heard of her death. She has perished in New York in the event that shocked the world Midnight. Once again,he lit his cigarette. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew, she was his missing rib that he had carelessly broken. Sometimes,people say things out of moments of fury. Most often than not, the outcome(s) could be disasterous and detrimental. We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones. And even though we know that we ought to "think twice, act wise", it's often easier said than done. Things happen day by day which are beyond our control. Especially at this moment of the century when the most undesirable event is happening at the other end of the world. Let us treasure every moment of our lives and everyone in our lives. ~*-*~ To all who matters in my heart... i love you... sincerely from the bottom of my heart... i thank you all for being there... there may be times when i may just lose myself at you but u held on... despite me screaming at you, u saw the real me who so desire your company... u know tt solitude is not exactly where i wanna be and u shared in my solitude... there may be times u can never find me but still u held onto the frenship... there may be times when i disappointed you time and again but ou continue to trust me... you made me smile and laugh... you tear and cry with me... you share in my anxiety... you worry for and with me... i no need to name names... because you know who you are... it is all in the heart... you and all u did for me... thank you... And dar... there are times i wan your attention... there are times i wan u to be sensitive... there are times i wan u to understand my feelings... there are times when i wan u to listen and see that i'm not happy... but i realise that it dun really matter anymore... as long as you are with me and we love each other... we will be able to see each other thru... i will try to give my attention instead of ask... i will try to be open and not hint and stuff... i will try to make my feelings known... i will try to compromise and accept things tt i m not happy about and not always make u change for me... I Love You... Elva Hsiao - Ni Shi Wo Xin Zhong Yi Ju Jing Tan In Solitude at 12:59 am 0 shared in solitude | ||||||||||||