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In Solitude at 4:44 pm 0 shared in solitude after having many people suggesting tt i change my blogskin... here is the product... from abt 1am i got tis skin till now... it is finally complete...how's the new skin? comments ok? use the comment function please... *blink blink* the current affairs post dun work... no comments there... wad must i do to get the comments coming in? hmmm... darn pissed today by lotsa things... had 3 revelations: 1. my sister's mentality: if i can't get it, i wun allow u to get it... after my grams forbid her to go out and ask her to do the chores... she dragged me into the heated exchange and demanded tt i have to do my chores before i m allowed out... wtf... u wanna go out i help u... when she dun allow u... u drag me into it and wan me to suffer as well... blardy hell... 2. my brother is a market spoiler he only takes allowance once a week from grams... $10 a week... and when i take abt $10 for 1-2 days... he would ask me why i need so much money... HELLO!!! u r in the army... u no need to pay to eat... u dun go out with ur frenz... u either eat, sleep or play games on the computer... u have no life... i, on the otherhand, have a life and i do hang out wif my frenz... even going to school... the school dun pay for my food... 3. Communication fails when you hear what you want and not listen to what the other party wants to say was out wif jes and munz... something happened in mac and i came to a realisation... when u hear wad u wan and nt listen to wad he says... u tend to end up in heated arguement and reading too much into pple's actions... a simple action or statement can caused u to think otherwise... gonna bear tt in mind... most of the time when misunderstandings happen... it is coz of wad we think abt it and make it become and nt wad it really could be or mean... how we misread it and then blow things up based on our own thoughts and 'facts'... 元卫觉醒 - 小时候 In Solitude at 3:32 am 1 shared in solitude i just had a revelation... i reckon tt if i wan pple to comment on my blog... i cannot post things like: "eek... i bit my nails today... after trying so hard to kick the habit and let my nails grow... i bit it again... 3 out of 10 nails... nvm... i will stand firm and spare the other 7 nails..." i need to do like wad other pple who gets lotsa comments do... comment on current affairs... or scandals so to speak... so here's my say abt the scandal... the NYP scandal... (finally ajs point of view) the teacher should not be having an affair with her student... oh... tt's very old scandal news... the latest one? oh... tt one... The guy is kinda cute here... my say... well tt's wad most str8 pple would expect from us ajs right? i mean most of them think we would devour anything wearing pants... they are so wrong... there are girls who wear pants... but tt's beside the point... seriously... the scandal thingy... me and my fren were discussing about it today and we arrive at a common question... what are they trying to prove with the video capturing? and dun they feel weird? with something 'watching' u? and how unlucky can a gal get? lost expensive phone nvm... sex vid captured (for wad???) was uploaded and now she is a pron actress so to speak... and she ain't paid... and the mystery still remains... WHY?!?!?!?! why did she do it? and i'm not suggesting that we dig out old wounds and stuff... coz well i do think she needs to be left alone... just like when u see popular artiste... dun bug them and point at them... same thing wif her... anyways... like wad most blogger mentioned in their blog (i'm trying to mimic them in hopes tt pple will comment... yes... i'm tt desperate...) i do have the vids but NO i ain't sending... and like what they say... if u try posting the links... i will delete them... (cool... now i will get to delete comments too...) anyways... this is now history (or at least she and the cute guy wans it to be history) so let's keep it tt way... until more vids surface and then i will continue with my lamentations: WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! tt's too old? tt's a scandal and my title suggest current affairs... ok how abt this news: Mr Rajaratnam, one of Singapore's founding fathers, the author of the Singapore Pledge and Singapore's first Foreign Minister, passed away on Wednesday, 22nd Febuary at 3.15pm. He would have turned 91 come Saturday, 25th Febuary 2006... hmmm... something more interesting... ok... He, NOT Mr Lee K.Y, was the first Senior Minister... really... quote CNA: "Mr Rajaratnam had retired from politics in 1988 after 29 years in Cabinet - the last four as Senior Minister." Mr Lee became Senior Minister after Mr Goh took over premiership in 1990 (or is it 1991... hmmm) something not so known... hmmm... a fire broke out in CK Tangs Basement The Marketplace on Sunday night/Monday Morning badly affecting business on Monday... about 5 stalls have their electricity affected and could not operate... surrounding stalls which had food products in their fridge had to throw them away due to the soot and smoke and stuff... so... ummm... is tt enough information to start people commenting on my blog??? Liang Jing Ru - Lu In Solitude at 10:51 pm 1 shared in solitude tis post is overdue... coz i wanna keep the previous post up so tt more pple can read it and hopefully comment... but alas~ no one is doing tt... nvm... on the 19th of Feb... i did something i nvr really thought i will do just yet... travel to batam... i joined SPI in their Camp Galang tour... met a few new frenz and a very cute malaysian... haha... anyways... i had fun there and seen how the place was... read up when i gt home and found out more abt the history of the place and stuff... kinda interesting place... when i m not so tired... and wif them for another tour... i would love to walk ard and stuff... and maybe next time i can plead wif them to let me lead the tour as in the walk around... coz i had read up a lot and i think i can be the tour guide if they need one... after batam... i rushed home to shower and changed then to see Deborah off... kinda sad and like Trina's seeing off... i managed to swallow the tears... seeing how andy tried to control i can see how much she means to him... tt night i did not sleep well... coz i felt strangely tired but not sleepy... as in i felt zapped of my energy but not sleepy... so i was awake till quite late b4 sleepiness came up and made me sleep... woke up the next day wif my fren calling me to tell me tt i may have attachment... i did check and guess wad... i really gt attachment... muahahaha... i mean i onli completed Econs and dunno if i pass my Contract Procurement and i have attachement... i did not even complete all my yr 1 modules... tis is gonna be fun... East Coast Town Council... and lately... i had considered... i wanna complete this diploma if possible... then go to Sydbey and do Theatre... then work there doing property maintanace while pursuing a part time career in the arts scene... then comeback to s'pore to do theatre...
watched DVD supersize me and wow... u know 1 of the experiement they carry out? they left the mac products to break down naturally and guess wad? the fries after 10 weeks looked like it was bought hrs ago... imagine the amount of chemical inside them... and according to the author of "Fast Food Nation" there is parts from almost 1000 different cows in 1 patty... not to mention abt the chemical... scary~ no more Mac... those who have nt watched tt documentary... gt the dvd to watch... and watch the bonus footage and deleted footage... it is alot of insights... now gonna look for the book fast food nation... Dido - Life for Rent In Solitude at 12:56 am 0 shared in solitude http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIvBX4iWxlU The Letter Produced by Dex Tan and directed by Justin Kan... a pretty good film about this gay who likes a straight... Congrats to the producer who bring forth such a great cast and crew and to produce the film... Well done to the director... being a director myself i know it is hard to bring to life the script and the ideas in the mind... so the protrayal was good... the actors was not bad... the supporting roles managed to carry the emotions of the characters well... with the intended feelings... it would help if the intensity of the supporting actor is stronger... also Roy as K.C. as probably too focused on pronouncing that he let loose a little on the emotions of the character but dramatic protrayal of the character was good... Edric would have been better if he was able to be harsher with his tone in the scene when Chee Kiong gave David the ring... it would be able to pus the audience to feel Chee Kiongs feelings more and also to push up the dramatic effect of the film... Lawrance did a great job in protraying the role of Chee Kiong... just a little more subtle with a little hesitation during the confession... but the ring scene was great... jumping onto Edric and frantically searching for the ring... After all the comments... i would rate the professionalism abt 8... really... most of the actors and actresses are doing better job than our local TV actors and actresses... the original music was great... the music producer is talented... if ever i were to do any stage production or film production... i might get him.... i'm just saying... stumbled upon the film while surfing some forums and i'm real glad that Dex was willing to bring to screen a story like this... i m able to empathise with Chee Kiong although i dun really go thru the same thing as him... i met a guy at an event playing games as well... and shortly after knowing him... we just managed to click and well... like Chee Kiong and David... we begin to bond and was with each other almost all the time... we stayed at each other's place and we were very close... but unlike Chee Kiong... the feeling remained in me till now... 4 years going 5... i'm not like him... i dun dare to face the possibility of rejection... i have no courage to make known my feelings for him... i'm feeling a lot for Chee Kiong... just tt now i'm wondering... how did Dex know abt the story since it is based on true events... hmmm... i'm leaving the dialouge to play while typing tis... oh ya... to the person who tried to spoil my nohari window... gee... thanks a lot jerk... In Solitude at 1:46 am 0 shared in solitude PEOPLE!!! help me on tis: http://kevan.org/nohari?name=timlin http://kevan.org/johari?name=timlin thanks! just click on url and follow the instructions... both urls... and be perfectly honest... In Solitude at 1:04 am 0 shared in solitude 2 major things happened today... 1. i feel tt i 'dui bu qi' Jeslyn... when she needed someone by her side... i was not there... one whom she trust would be by her side is no longer by her side... i know how she's been feeling lately... esp. after Trina's departure back to Sydney... but after assuring tt i would make myself free on wednesday for her... i kinda betrayed tt trust and broken the promise that today will be left for her to see if she is free to meet up... coz tuesday suppose to meet her but i wanna prepare for today's paper (which i did not go coz at the end coz i just gave up hope)... after reading her msg... i feel tt i could have prevented her to feel tt way... if only i kept to wad i told her... 2. i have decided to cancel off my M1 line... i dun care about wad my sis is gonna say... and she better pay off her debts by 1st Sept... she gt her singtel line under my name and i just found out that she owed Singtel $719.67!!! i confronted her with a resolution but she just screamed back at me... sigh~ and when i told my grams abt it... she just scolded me for wasting money... been feeling low lately too... i dunno... just tt i feel insignificant... and my mood seem to be heading down... i have been thinking alot... i guess tt's why Jes and I can be such understanding frenz... she has been true to her feelings and has been understanding... and she has been able to sympathise with my feelings and see things from my point of view... and like me... she thinks alot too... my feelings are mixed yet i dunno wad is being mixed and wad is mixing them... i'm sorry my friends for being only trouble... for breaking promises... for not being able to be there... for being unable to help... i'm sorry for bringing only sadness and trouble to you... for bring ill fortune and bad luck... i'm sorry for causing so much pain in ur life...for causing tears more than smiles... if u had not known me.. would things be different? In Solitude at 10:10 pm 0 shared in solitude was surfing blogs when i stumble upon somthing interesting: a quote from http://titanically.blogspot.com "A True Friend Makes You More You. They Do Not Change You." sets me thinking... how often do i change myself to impress people whom i call friends... they always see the good side of me... the 'masked Tim' and seldom do i really reveal who i really am... as days go by, the mask got thicker and harder to wear... yet equally hard to remove in front of them... when i read the blog and saw the statement... how many people actually really see the unmasked me? i have a lot of friends... people who see me smile and laugh and jump around and act stupid... people who hear me crack jokes that make them freeze and laugh together with me or at me... but how many actually will accept me for who i m... to see the Tim who is really Tim... there are people who keep wanting to change me... i understand tt changes are good esp. if it helps me kick off bad habits and make me a better person... but are u willing to accept me if i dun change... if i m not the Tim tt u wan me to be... will u give me up? i have seen people giving me up, leaving me and keep their distance when i m no longer the person tt they wan me to be... yet i've seen pple who decides to draw close despite all the negetivity i exhibit... true friends accept you for who you are... are you my true friend? I will be your friend - Coco Lee In Solitude at 3:03 pm 1 shared in solitude Valentine's Day... a day where lovers celebrate their love... a day when love is shown freely... but why do i feel least loved today... Home: where i know i must be... where my dreams wait for me... where the river always flow... this is home... surely... as my senses tell me... this is where i wun be alone... this is where i know it's home... home to me is never like the song... it seems like the opposite of the song... when i'm feeling down... home never ask why... but scolds me for sulking and showing attitude... all i wan is a family... one who cares and is there... is it too much to ask for... i fear growing up... i dun wanna grow up... when i was young i hoped i was older... then would i be able to go out and have fun and enjoy... but when i m older... all the fun memories came from when i was young... i fear growing old... i fear being an adult... i fear so many things... seeing the kids playing cheerfully... it feels tt it is very easy to satisfy a child... but as we grow up... it becomes harder to satisy us... when we were young... we can enjoy so much just from running around... but now? i'm envious of the joy of others... joy from frenz, from family, from love... pple ard me no matter how vexed still enjoy something from 1 of the 3 areas... me... i only want ordinary happiness... to love and be loved... to feel his temperature when it turns cold... i desire simple happiness... to find a sweet reliance... whenever i feel down, there's concern... 平凡幸福-张玉华 In Solitude at 10:06 pm 0 shared in solitude this is the first time i got something positive on my blog title right? i got a computer mic... haha... been doing comp conversation so quite fun... dl skype but dunno how to use... know a few pple thru fridae... as in i know them previously... then gotta know abt them thru fridae when they suddenly had perks for all their users... funny... and the perks sure are tempting... today, tmr and wed gt term test... i hope i pass... though i got a weird feelin i'm gonna fail my CT and ECT again.. V.day is coming... i wan a stead!!! edited a spell by Charmed: Locked in boxed in hurts till I tear My depression grows manic till I can't hear In need of reprive so I can breath Remove my pain please make it leave Raine Yang Cheng Lin - Ai Mei In Solitude at 10:07 pm 0 shared in solitude As days become months and months become years... i slowly lost faith in the structure of the family... These few days were very fun days as we spent as much time as possible with Trina to keep her company... met her with Deb to intro her to each other and glad they have a nice time chatting and knowing each other... now i m sure they will have each other for comapny in Sydney and things will not be so bleak for Deb and boring for Trina... met Trina,Jes,Munz,Sumei for Suki as her farewell dinner... had fun chatting chilling and eating then off they go to MoMo while i head home... met Jes,Trina at Trina place on Friday to chill and really talked and chatted... saw Jes' gift to her and was really marvelled by it... got a letter from her and spent the last few hours singing, chatting and laughing... see her off with her family and watched her go in... i was suddenly wondering... when i go over to Australia... who will be there to see me off? will i cry? how would things turn out? i did not write much in the card i gave her... apparently i feel that there is a next time and we will meet again... there is no need to write too much... but also becoz the feeling of being lost of words overwhelms the desire to write more... after seeing her off... i had retail therapy and within 10 min i spent 30SGD Deb's turn is coming soon... slowly... people are going overseas or drifting away from me... i really feel that there are lesser and lesser people to really talk to and share problems with... Suddenly... the plan of going to Sydney to do Drama and Socialogy seems like an escape from the family and the upset feelings building up... After Trina is gone... it feels like there is an outlet less to release anything within... things will be different... not as fun as before... but well... i will look forward till she comes back... then look forward to me going over to Sydney to study... i m anticipating 21 years old... i dunno... tt age feels like freedom... it feels like then i can officially ignore the unwanted birthright and responsibility from my brother... i feel lost... i feel painful within... and with her departure... something was ripped from within me... i wanna escape... iwanna run... and i hope 21 will give me the mental release first... 202 days from today... the countdown's etting closer everyday... something i m using to move on... i'm babbling... 平凡幸福-张玉华 In Solitude at 6:57 pm 0 shared in solitude Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say, "I love you even more this year,than last year on this day.My love for you will always grow,with every passing year."She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, "He ordered roses in advance before this day.Her loving husband did not know,that he would pass away.He always liked to do things early, way before the time.Then, if he got too busy,everything would work out fine." She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase.Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.She would sit for hours, on her husband's favorite chair, while staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there. A year went by, and it was without her mate.With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate. Then, the very hour, the doorbell rang, and there were roses sitting by her door. She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.The owner answered, and she asked him,if he would explain, why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain? "I know your husband passed away,more than a year ago,"The owner said,"I knew you'd call, and you would want to know. The flowers you received today,were paid for in advance. Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance. There is a standing order. I have on file down here. And he has paid, well in advance, so you'll get them every year.There also is another thing that I think you should know. He wrote a special little card. He did this years ago. Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here, that's the card that should be sent to you the following year." She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard.Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached to get the card. Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note.Then she stared in total silence. This is what he wrote. "Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone. I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.I know it must be lonely,and the pain is very real. Or if it was the other way, I know how I would feel.The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.I loved you more than words can say. You were the perfect wife. You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve. I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.When you get these roses, think of all the happiness that we had together, and how both of us were blessed. I have always loved you and I know I always will. But, my love, you must go on, you have to continue living. Please. Try to find happiness, while living out your days. I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways. The roses will come every year, and they will only stop when your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock. He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt!To take the roses to the place,where I've instructed him and place the roses where we are, together once again. Sometimes in life, you find a special friend.Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. ~*~*~*~*~ got tis from http://christianlee.blogspot.com and found it very meaningful and touching... hope u enjoy it... The Rose - Bette Midler In Solitude at 3:05 pm 0 shared in solitude Standing in the crowded Whynot on the 3rd of Feb... the feeling of loneliness sets in... the feeling of being lost in the midst of familiar faces... the overwhelming feeling of being a stranger although there are people that i know... i tried to hide the agony... the thought of blurring my vision should help dull the pain a little... i'm wrong... when everything seems like a blur... the isolation becomes stronger... even familiar faces disappear... i wanna fill that void and i gave into the violent indulgence of the music playing... the harder i dance... the more apart i feel from the group... the more i indulge the more i feel separated... i looked around... people mingle... i'm forgotten... my existance becomes a question... i gave up... i stopped and looked into a mirror... i saw myself... i'm here... why do others no see me? instead of being in the moment and enjoying... the moment enjoy mocking me... ~*-*~ i managed to get lotsa things done on Friday after all the sickening delays and postponning and plan spoiling... i got my membership renewed... i got my dental appointment fixed... i collected(and spent) my pay... clarified project details... bought dessert for my frenz at Bravissimo... then i met Jeslyn and Trina and went to MoS... a great place to club except for the crowd being a little not auto and sensitive to the fact tt there is no where they can squeeze... gt R(A) show to watch and enjoyed myself there... at abt 12.15 they left for MoMo, which i cannot enter while i head down to Whynot with Jeremy after stumbling upon him in MoS... met his frenz Henry and Ken and while they enjoyed... i got lost in my own world of thoughts and feelings... so intense i m sure they must think i m either crazy or probably schizophrenic... left for supper then head back to the hotel and watched whose line is it anyway... very funny... Sat came and i went home got change and fresh clothes then head back... tried to enter MoMo again but cannot... so after having supper at Maxwell me and munz headed back to the hotel for a session of Tarot and chatting... Sunday came and went with me eating with Shanghai food and carried on the rest of the day as planned... met Jeremy for Sakae Sushi and went to Tiong Bahru to chill... at Mac... i saw someone who acts exactly like me... the way i cross my arms... the way i stand and move when i talk... so similiar... caught the last bus and got caught in the rain... gt home to do my contract procurement and submitted a 24 page tender document, a tender report, 2 specifications and some tendering procedures work to Ms Liew and met Jes to chill at ECP... gt home... stupid internet refuse to connect till now... busy week... and guess wad... (it is nth new actually) i'm sick again... after recovering from diarrhea... i'm now down with flu and fever... this suck... ECT due... Trina flying off this weekend... Deb next weekend... sigh~ my frenz are leaving me... 同类 - 孙燕姿 In Solitude at 2:07 am 0 shared in solitude Contract Procurement by Monday ECT by Wednesday TFC by Wednesday sigh~ $50 for an ex M1 line by 5th Feb $150 for current M1 line ASAP $40 for Premium by 5th Feb Current Tally of AngBao: abt $150 this new year suck... In Solitude at 10:28 pm 0 shared in solitude | ||||||||||||||||||
